1.  Take into account that great love and great achievements 
         involve great risk.  

    2.  When you lose, don't lose the lesson.  

    3.  Follow the three R's: 
            Respect for self  
            Respect for others and 
            Responsibility for all your actions.  

    4.  Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a 
         wonderful stroke of luck.  

    5.  Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.  

    6.  Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.  

    7.  When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate 
         steps to correct it.  

    8.  Spend some time alone.  

    9.  Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.  

   10.  Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.  

   11.  Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and 
          think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.  

   12.  A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your 
          life.  Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home.  

   13.  In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current 
          situation.  Don't  bring up the past.  

   14.  Share your knowledge.  It's a way to achieve immortality.  

   15.  Be gentle with the earth.  

   16.  Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.  

   17.  Remember that the best relationship is one in which your 
          love for each other exceeds your need for each other.  

   18.  Judge your success by what you had to give up in order 
          to get it.  

   19.  Call your mother.  

   20.  Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.